Examining Social Anxiety and Its Underlying Causes
Anxiety is not a one-size-fits-all issue. While generalized anxiety disorder is common, some are not anxious about everything. Rather, specific situations and settings lead to uncertainty and fear.
That tends to be the case for those with social anxiety — an intense fear of social situations.
People with social anxiety deal with excessive worry about being judged or criticized. They might always think people are talking about them behind their backs. Or, they might go to the worst-case scenario when thinking about a social situation, even if those thoughts may not be realistic.
Social anxiety can be crippling and isolating, and even lead to other mental health issues. With that in mind, let’s take a closer look at social anxiety and some of its underlying causes.
What Does Social Anxiety Look Like?
Again, social anxiety refers to an intense fear of social situations. That can look slightly different from person to person. Some people with social anxiety will avoid events altogether and isolate themselves as much as possible in an effort to “avoid judgment.” Others might deal with physical symptoms in social situations, from sweating and trembling to a racing heart.
Many people with social anxiety have a fear of engaging with others. They worry they might say something wrong or be viewed in a negative light. So, they may not make eye contact or speak up, even if they have something to say.
Sound familiar? If so, you are certainly not alone. Social anxiety affects millions of people in the U.S. alone, but the causes can vary from person to person. While exact causes cannot be exactly pinned down, we are aware of some of the potential factors.
Genetics
There is not a social anxiety gene that passes from one family to another. However, if you have a family history of anxiety disorders of any kind, you might be more susceptible to social anxiety.
If you are naturally more prone to shyness or tend to be more anxious, in general, your vulnerability to social anxiety is greater. This is something that can be “learned” by your familial environment as you grow up if your parents or caregivers struggle with the same issues.
Environmental Factors
Many people with social anxiety develop it as a result of the world around them and the experiences they go through. That can stem all the way back to childhood. If you were bullied, ridiculed, or criticized, your social anxiety could have started at a very young age.
Trauma and abuse can also lead to social anxiety, as well as family dynamics. For example, if your parents had unrealistic expectations of you or there was high criticism in your upbringing, it could have caused you to be anxious about social settings.
Mental Imbalances
Sometimes, chemical imbalances in the brain can trigger social anxiety. For example, if you are not producing enough serotonin, it can increase your risk of developing anxious thoughts. That can contribute to generalized anxiety, but might also make you more fearful of social settings and potentially being judged by others.
What Can You Do?
The good news about understanding the potential causes of social anxiety is that it allows you to be one step closer to healing from it.
There are things you can do on your own to manage the symptoms of social anxiety, including self-care practices and mindfulness. Mindfulness allows you to stay grounded in the present while reducing your stress, so you’re less likely to let fear overtake your thoughts.
One of the best ways to overcome social anxiety is to work with a mental health professional. Anxiety counseling will help you dig deeper into any root causes. You can use these as starting points on your healing journey, then learn to manage your symptoms, and eventually overcome the fear that is keeping you from having a full social life. If you are ready, I am here to help. Contact me today for a consultation.